Author: Pearls For The Soul
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YOUR BLIND SIDE HIDES FROM YOU BUT OTHERS CAN SEE IT
Ask for feedback? Then don’t argue with the answer. You do not have to accept every comment. But first: RECEIVE IT. EXAMINE IT. LOOK FOR THE PATTERN. If it is true… USE IT. — Richie
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WHEN THE HANDS WORK… THE MIND RESTS
Thinking harder is not always the answer. Sometimes: Sweep. Garden. Paint. Cook. Build. Wash the car. Let the hands work… And give the mind somewhere quiet to rest. — Richie
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IF YOUR HEART IS MISSING… SO IS THE REAL YOU
You can show up physically… And still not really be there. At work. At home. In a relationship. In a conversation. If your heart is missing… SO ARE YOU. Where you are… BE THERE. — Richie
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DURING YOUR DAY YOU CAME AND YOU WENT… WHAT DID YOU NOTICE?
Don’t make your days one big blur. LOOK. LISTEN. NOTICE. CONTRIBUTE. A smile. A conversation. A sunset. A kind word. Small moments mark a life. — Richie
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“FOOL’S GOLD” … DON’T BE FOOLED—BE RICH INSTEAD HERES HOW
Fool’s gold shines. So does real gold. That is why appearance is not enough. Life has fool’s gold too: Status. Attention. Possessions. Distractions. Ask a better question: WHAT IS ACTUALLY VALUABLE HERE? — Richie
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FAITH WORKS… EVEN WHEN YOU DON’T
Faith is not doing nothing. Do your homework. Make the call. Work. Prepare. Act. Then when you reach the edge of what YOU can control… OPEN YOUR HANDS. You did your part. Now trust. — Richie
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WHAT ONE PERSON CAN DO… ANOTHER CAN DO TOO
Somebody started the business. Somebody earned the degree. Somebody bought the home. Somebody took the trip. So before saying: I CAN’T… Ask: HOW DID THEY DO IT? Success leaves clues. — Richie
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ANY TEAM—PERSONAL OR PROFESSIONAL—CAN SCORE ONCE THEY GEL…HERES THE FORMULA
Put talented people together… And you do NOT automatically have a team. First they: FORM. STORM. NORM. Then… PERFORM. Conflict is not always the problem. UNRESOLVED conflict is. — Richie
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EXCESSIVE DRINKING AND DRUGS… SEDATE THE SELF. WHY DO THAT?
If you repeatedly need alcohol or drugs to: NUMB. ESCAPE. FORGET. SLEEP. FEEL NORMAL. Then the substance may not be the whole problem. Ask what it is doing FOR you… Then find a healthier way to answer that need. — Richie
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BOUNDARIES REMAIN A FASCINATING SUBJECT
Draw a line. Tell people: DON’T CROSS IT. Then watch. Some move away. Some stand on the edge. Some cross just to see what happens. Boundaries do more than restrict behavior. THEY REVEAL IT. — Richie
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RELIGION’S MAIN PURPOSE? LEAD YOU TO GOD
Religion can teach. Guide. Discipline. Organize. But eventually it must point beyond itself. The destination is not the ritual. THE DESTINATION IS GOD. Ask questions. Seek deeply. Live what you claim to believe. — Richie
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WITHOUT A FINISH… YOUR START IS WORTHLESS
Starting feels good. Finishing feels better. 50% is unfinished. 90% is unfinished. If it matters enough to begin… TAKE IT ACROSS THE LINE. Completion turns effort into evidence. — Richie
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I HAVE MORE YES’S THAN NO’S… HOW ABOUT YOU?
Some people look for reasons to say: NO. I prefer: HOW CAN WE MAKE THIS WORK? YES does not mean reckless. Sometimes it means: YES… IF. YES… BUT. YES… LET’S EXPLORE IT. Possibility gets things moving. — Richie
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RULE PLAYER OR RULE SLAYER… HOW DO YOU PLAY?
Not every rule is good. Not every rule should be broken. The mature question is: WHY DOES THIS RULE EXIST? Follow reasonable rules. Challenge bad ones responsibly. And if you make an exception… OWN THE CONSEQUENCES. — Richie





